Dear black girl, you are gorgeous!
Dear white girl, you are precious!
Dear mixed girl, you are exquisite!
Dear Girl Child, you are Beautiful!
In this new society. MELANIN is popping, silky hair is the new “in thing”, and make up is ruling the era. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with wearing make-up, wearing weaves, braiding your hair and doing what you love.
Being yourself and doing what you love is the best way to be the most beautiful. I know this is so cliche and you’ve probably seen many Instagram posts on being beautiful.
Just so you know, and so that you are informed. The color of your skins means absolutely nothing, zero. Stop trying to be and look like everyone else and focus on being yourself.
Dear black boy, you’re good-looking!
Dear white boy, you’re striking!
Dear mixed boy, you’re amazing!
Dear Boy child, you are Handsome!
Just because you aren’t buff, 6 feet, built with the lowest percentage of body fat. Doesn’t mean that you aren’t great. In this society men are so focused on going to the gym and looking good but they forget that life isn’t about being the strongest or sexiest.
Unfortunately looks can’t get you an intellectual job. (unless of course you would like to be a model which is absolutely fantastic by the way) Having the best 6 abs or having the most toned arms isn’t the only thing there is to living. Yes its a good addition but if your personality is trash none of those things matter.
Being intelligent and reading instead of partying and wasting your life isn’t whack. Attempting to search for fame and popularity and wasting time on useless matters will get you absolutely nowhere.
Do what you love and love what you do or else you’ll never progress. Stop trying to be like other people, they don’t have the same dreams and aspirations as you do.
PS. this sounded like some cliche self appreciation post. Ain’t that cool?
PPS. my blog is about peace, love and positivity. Take all your negative energy and turn that into something useful. Thanks 🙂
Introduction to Emmanuel Ndonga
Hey, my name is Emmanuel Ndonga Founder & CEO of ‘The 2030 Billionaires Academy’. I’m currently running my own business averaging a minimum of $800 every month; I’m in my final year of high-school and a member of Team Kenya Swimming Team. Now, before I move further, you’re probably thinking “WOW!! How’s he doing all this?? Or… ‘What am I doing with my life?’ Truth be told I’m no different from you. In school I may not be your typically smart A or A* student, as a matter of fact for a while I believed I wasn’t good enough… that I was never destined to be great or amount to much because at the time I believed that if I couldn’t pass my exams, what could I possibly do in life? I struggled with this for a while. Now, you’re probably wondering ‘so how did you shift from being the kid who lacked vision and seemed to have nothing going on in his life to who you are today?’
Well, the answer to this is what changed my life significantly…. You see as much as I didn’t have much going on in my life academically, I knew that I deserved better. I had this belief that I was destined to make an impact and I struggled finding myself through the process. I lost a lot of “friends” (don’t get me wrong, losing friends was quite heard but along the journey I picked up new friends who were like-minded and wanted to achieve more with their lives). I began listening to motivational videos that would inspire me, took online courses on whatever I could find that I thought was helpful in my life and in the process I discovered my true calling which was Entrepreneurship. Personally my parents wanted me to be a lawyer; however, the thought of being a lawyer put me off for several reasons. The main reason was when I went for an internship at this particular Law Firm. My friend was having the time of her life attending court cases and asking the lawyers’ questions, as for me on the other hand… well you know that uncomfortable feeling where you have to hang out with your parents’ guests and you’d prefer to be in your room?? Yeah that was me the entire time; I knew deep down that Law was definitely not for me.
This is where many of us are at, you know you can do more with your life but you haven’t quite discovered what you want to do, or you’re in that position where you don’t know what to do and you know in your heart of hearts the career path your parents have chosen for you is one that you really don’t want to pursue and don’t know what to do. That’s 100% alright, Because I was there!!! And found the solution to all this and that’s where The 2030 Billionaires Academy comes in!!!
WHAT IS THE 2030 BILLIONAIRES ACADEMY AND HOW IT WILL BENEFIT YOU!
The 2030 Billionaires Academy is essentially for all youth, I want to create this belief and show you guys it is possible to live the life of your Dreams when you’re still young!! I shall be teaching you guys things that we shall NEVER be taught in school as well as the steps I used to change my life and find myself and my DESTINED CAREER PATH, which is what most of us are here for. I want all of us to succeed and NOT live the rest of our lives working a 9-5 job that sickens us and at the age of 65, retiring, and looking back with regret.
So how will I do this? I shall be Producing daily content on my Instagram Page (@emmanuel_ndonga) that essentially will be teaching you the key lessons that we will NEVER learn in school such as how to Kill procrastination, or How to Build Self-Confidence and so much more. However, the pinnacle of this Academy shall lie in the Online Master-Classes that shall be the tools you will use to take your life to the next level. I shall be giving you guys all the content and knowledge that I have learnt in the past year to build my life and my business, I shall share with you my mistakes and from there, learn from them and not make them. (Huge note this is NOT just for people into Entrepreneurship). In the Masterclasses, I shall be teaching concepts such as “How to Master Yourself and Unlock Your Destined Career Path” or concepts such as “How To Make Money Online With The Knowledge You Have” and so much more! The Masterclasses shall have a fee moreover the spaces shall fill up pretty fast however if you want to know when I shall be dropping my Master-Classes send an email to (email@example.com) and I shall be letting you know in advance when my master-classes are soon to be released.
I’m insisting right now do not let this moment pass you by, you’re probably in my situation where I was a year ago and I’m currently working, doing what I love and I truly cannot be more grateful. Do follow my Instagram Page https://www.instagram.com/emmanuelndonga/ and ask me any further questions you may have about this Academy or simply email me at firstname.lastname@example.org
My first-Master-Class shall be out very soon you don’t want to miss out as once the spaces are filled up there’s not much I can do and I truly want each and every one of you to live the life of your dreams! Make the rest of your life the BEST of your life.
We are all the same. You and me, we. We’re all the same. I know its a bit cliche but its the truth. Equality doesn’t mean that we all have to be the same. The differences in us make us unique and special in our own way. Uniquity makes us more interesting. Imagine all the flowers in the world looked the same. Would that be nice? Looking different than someone else doesn’t make us less than them. Differences make us who we are. In my short time on this world I’ve learned that we only accept what we know, we refuse to accept the unknown. But if all we accept is what we know, then how will we find new things?
I am literally so cliche.
I’m tired of people not feeling good enough, of people degrading themselves, of hate ,of NEGATIVITY!
It’s funny how we’re all hypocrites. How we preach equality but discriminate against others. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, (My friend says this at least once a day smh, Steph). Honestly, everyone has their own opinions. We shouldn’t let other people tell us who we are. We try so hard sometimes to please other people and end up not even pleasing ourselves.
Black is beauty, white is beauty, mixed race is beauty.
Nerdy is beauty, sporty is beauty, healthy is beauty.
The anorexic starve themselves due to the pressure of society telling them they aren’t skinny enough. The bulimic vomit their guts out in order to be the perfect shape they feel society wants them to be.
Why do we try all these things just to achieve “Perfection”? What really is “Perfection”?
I’m not one to preach positivity, I struggled so hard to be this perfect person but ended up tumbling and breaking down, my major support being my best friend Nicole ( and Glodi and my closest friends who literally brighten up my life). I guess we just have to be happy with who we are because we really can’t be anyone else, as much as we may try to be.
You don’t have to be anything for anyone, but you do have to be happy for yourself.
Do not feel like you are not worthy, because you are. Do not feel like you are not beautiful/handsome, because you are. Do not feel like you aren’t talented, because YOU ARE.
Stop raining on other peoples parade because one thing or the other is bringing you down. Think of those few things there are to be happy about and join their parade.
Spread the positivity. Stop the negativity.
To whoever it may concern, you’re so damn beautiful/handsome and I hope for the best for you.
Lol, so Okay. Lemme not lie over here, I always do the most but in the end take L’s.
I’ve been way too serious and deep in my blogs lately and its kind of weird because I’m like the biggest joker I know. I never take things seriously and when I write sometimes I even surprise myself at how mature I sound. ( I read my own blogs and it’s so cringe)
But most of the time when I’m actually writing I’m probably listening to sad songs which put me in a sad mood. But usually I’m lit lit lit! 21 all the way!
Honestly, I’m always doing the most. They’re times when I’m just dancing cause I remember tunnel vision and sing the whole entire song in my head with instrumentals and back -up voices ( because I’m just so extra), or times when I start laughing because I remember a joke or a meme I read on Instagram ( because Instagram is basically my life). The random things I do are just so weird, my friends can back me up on this ( Right, Georgina?)
When I first decided to start a blog, I laughed for like 5 minutes straight because the idea of me being serious and sharing my feelings is so odd. But disclosure; I’m 75% serious in school, 20% a joker and 5% a lost cause. But this blog was a good Idea anyway. Thanks for all your support kids ( I really truly absolutely mean it from the deepest part of my heart)
Honestly, I wonder when I will actually be serious. I actually prefer not being serious and doing the most. But for now dudes and chicks, kids of the world,
Stay lit bro!
So lately life has been a little shitty ( excuse my vulgarity but I couldn’t find a better word). I mean, no one really has a perfect life so its not like I expected one. It’s been a bumpy ride for the past few months of my life and don’t take this the wrong way, I’m not writing for pity. I guess I’m just sharing.
What if you could plan your life? How would it be? Would every little thing be perfect? Would you enjoy it? Would it be fun?
The most frequently asked question in this generation is
“What do you plan to do when you’re older?”
Do we even know the answer to this question? I mean, do we even know what’s gonna happen tomorrow? So how would we know what will happen in future. We can’t even decide what to eat sometimes, how can we decide on our life choices. Actually life is more like a Sudoku puzzle, you really don’t know what number goes where until you analyze that shit. You can’t tell where life will take you and you cant tell what will happen tomorrow and that’s okay. Its better not knowing sometimes. Sometimes surprises are better, so that way you aren’t let down.
Okay, I’m not trying to be deep but this is just how the world is. One moment the sun will be heating up the back of your neck and the next moment the rain will be having a drum solo on the top of your head. Its not like we plan for things to happen, they kinda just unfold. We usually don’t expect happiness, or what will make us happy. But when such things happen, we get so overwhelmed and that’s pure joy. That’s real. Real is unexpected, it’s overwhelming and sometimes a little scary.
Right now is what really matters. We can’t forget about right now and think about tomorrow because that isn’t real. We can’t think about yesterday because we can’t change it.
Live in the right now Kids.